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First time mums

Am I being too controlling?

I recently came back to my moms bc I couldn’t handle being at my baby daddies spot w his parents. I literally felt like a vessel. No one cared to ask how I was doing pp. they financially took advantage of me and threw it in my face. Not to mention mil said im a terrible mother for wanting to pursue my education after having a baby. She said no one told me to have a baby when I asked her why she said that I GAVE them 5k in rent while I was the only Caring for baby 24/7 like… and now I’m at my moms and we’re both happy asf. Me and my child. And now they want to come over here and not to see me but to see my son but it’s like I’m part of the deal. I don’t want to see them my son does. What should I do? Let them baby sit? I feel like I’m disrespecting myself by letting them walk all over me. They didn’t say happy Mother’s Day but had the decency to text me the next day asking bout my son. What would u do? They take away so much of my peace. They literally didn’t even know where im from that’s how much they don’t care bout me. I been living with them for 3 years. Also when we were living w them on their day off they would be gone all day and come back after my son fell asleep at 11pm. So it’s like why now? I was going to school full time and working part time and even though we lived together they wouldn’t help and would rather do their own thing. We were paying 1200 in rent (my baby daddy still is) and they pay 1800 working 80 hours each in California. It’s fine w me. It doesn’t seem like they care bout their son based on what he’s told me so why do they care about mine?