AIO
Boyfriend and I broke up. It's complicated because we aren't talking about getting back together and I'm not sure if I want to but we still do things with the kids and I obviously still love him. We haven't said we aren't sleeping with other people and honestly I didn't want to ask because we aren't together but I go over to his place last because we took the kids to breakfast this morning and as I was cleaning up and getting the kids ready, I found false eyelashes. I didn't say anything but I cleared the night stand and left it there. When he came inside from cleaning the car, he went into the bedroom to change and somewhere during that time he took the false lash. Didn't mention it to me and not sure if he thinks he threw it away before I saw it but I am honestly a little bothered by it and not sure what to even do. Like it's a little fucked up imo
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Your feelings are understandable as you still have feelings for him but you're both single. He's allowed to date, sleep with etc whoever he wants and doesn't have to tell you about it.
First, I'd figure out what you actually want.
If you want to work towards getting back together, see if he feels the same way and then have a conversation about if you are/aren't sleeping with other people during this.
If he has no interest in getting back together, set boundaries so you don't end up in situations that do bother you in this way.
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