Foreplay
I want to start off by saying yes I understand stress and many factors play into it. That being said..
Has your partner ever fallen asleep during foreplay?
This isn’t the first time it’s happened, it used to happen often when we first started dating. I voiced it to him several times that it made me feel certain ways and that if he felt tired to not initiate or follow through with the deed. Again, I know lots of things can play into him falling asleep during foreplay but I’m wondering if this is a ‘normal’ thing? and how you felt if it did happen to you? If it hasn’t happened, how do you think you would feel?
I also want to add alcohol usually plays into it. The last two nights he’s gotten drunk, initiated it, and then passed out mid foreplay.
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I would feel really put off and disheartened if this happened to me.
I think he needs to no initiate things/you both lay down boundaries if he’s drinking.
It’s happened to me a few times, but it was me who fell asleep. For me, it was just feeling relaxed and it being late at night that caused it. Nothing personal about the man.
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