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IT'S A POLL WORLD! 🙋🏽‍♀️

In a death by 10000 paper cuts type of marriage and I feel like I’m being gaslit to think it’s acceptable

The overwhelming theme is a lack of care and consideration in everything he does. There’s nothing extreme like cheating, gambling, abuse etc. my husband would be one of those men who’d say “the divorce came out of nowhere” even though I constantly tell him my needs aren’t being met and he’s not reaching the standard that I want for myself and our kids, it’s just exhausting. I feel like every single thing rests on my shoulders, if I want my kids to have a quality childhood and healthy food and clean hair and limited screen time etc etc I do it all and god forbid I’m feeling under the weather I just have to either suck it up and continually do more than my fair share while sick or feel guilty that my kids aren’t being cared for like they should because he’ll just let them zombie out on screens and order pizza so he can play video games. I’m so sick of it, I tell him nicely, break it down as if he were 5, I get more mean about it, nothing helps