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Wrexham

I’m at a complete loss

Hi everyone! Apologies in advance if this is TMI but I really need some advice. I’m currently 34+6 weeks pregnant, and a couple of weeks ago I started having some fluid leaking. I went and got it checked out at the hospital and they diagnosed it as being an infection even though I had 0 symptoms at all (I probably should have pushed for further checks but at the time I took what the doctor was telling me) I was given treatment for 7 days and have noticed things have got significantly worse. After speaking to my midwife yesterday I contacted my GP today and asked for an appointment for further checks for them to confirm that my results from the hospital actually showed no signs of infection and I shouldn’t have been given any treatment. This is the second time they’ve done this to me since being pregnant, and I feel like I’ve been given misinformation throughout my whole pregnancy about mine and baby’s health - I haven’t even been allowed to make a birth plan yet as I’ve been waiting for a heart scan for 6 months to confirm if I can have a natural birth or not despite it being requested 4 times. I feel like I’ve lost complete trust in them and knowing I could give birth soon is filling me with anxiety and I’m supposed to trust them with her life and a safe delivery. I don’t even trust they’ve got her gender right at this point. Being a first time mum this has just filled me with nothing but fear, anxiety and ruined something that is supposed to be a happy time. Has anyone else experienced this or something similar? I really don’t know what to do🤦🏼‍♀️