Hi everyone!

I tried again as soon as possible for me it was the next cycle

With our first miscarriage, we waited two cycles because I didn’t feel ready, but this time we’ve jumped straight in as it was a missed miscarriage (was told it was fine to try as soon as I wanted) and I’ve been tracking my ovulation.

But it’s whenever you’re both ready💕

As for the arguments, with our first loss, me and my partner snapped at each other all the time because neither of us knew how to deal with it, I guess, but it’s important to remember you’re on the same side and to communicate with each other, even with simple things, like I personally need a lot of physical touch to help me feel better whereas my partner doesn’t, so I got better at asking for a cuddle, etc.

Have you been given the contact details for the therapy from your team? I know where I am, you get so many free counselling sessions following a loss. But you’re right, people do tend to disappear once they’ve said they’re sorry. The Tommys website has a lot of guidance

Hey Abbie I’m so sorry to hear that I hope your feeling ok. I waited to have another period so like a full cycle and just really went hard on taking supplements and trying to rest and get ready and now I’m 6dpo (dr said to wait one cycle to give my body time to recover) I hope you get your rainbow baby xx