Just found out my “loyal” husband is cheating. All the signs were there and yet because we are married I trusted him. Now I look everywhere and feel like I’ll never trust anyone again. So many years wasted. And the kids don’t deserve this. Is there no hope? Are all married men cheaters? If he wanted to be good he would right? Or does it just take the right woman or reason to come along. I let myself go being comfortable. Now I’m fat single and hopeless. Been working out in rage mood. Send prayers my way please ladies.
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Learn more about our guidelines.Like it makes me want to just hook up with guys and never settle down. But that’s not safe while my kids are young. Then again I don’t ever want to love again. I’m just in the thick of it. Even when guys would flirt when I was married I never even thought of cheating. I was faithful when he wasn’t and I feel soooooo stupid for that.

I don't think all men are but there are a lot especially when they're are women that don't care or won't do anything so they continue to do so. My ex did with a family member of his that didn't live no where near us. My husband is all about telling ppl he's married and he doesn't teens to go anywhere with out me. He even has me drop & pick him up from work.