I feel like I’m going to feel used when she asks to sleep over because she has to not cus she wants to.
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No I feel this lol
I imagine there’s a lot more too it than just that too
My sister is 21 and she’s still very immature and selfish I feel like it’s pointless saying anything though as it won’t change untill she matures ( we’ve had so many convos where she ethire doesn’t see what I’m saying or says she’ll do better but doesn’t ) so it’s a live with it or cut her off situation for me
I do think because of their ages they definitely do deserve a bit of grace and time to mature though
I said I don’t think you’re overreacting because you’ve not really reacted ? You’re just a bit hurt and that’s valid

Have you invited her over? Do you guys hang out otherwise. It feels a bit extreme to feel used by her trying to be responsible and make sure she can get to school