Help me with a debate

So me and hubby are having a debate about shower temps😬
I take a cool shower. Like not ice cold but it’s warm and there’s no steam.
He takes a shower from hell itself to the point you can’t see in the bathroom or if my hair is straight I walk in it’s curly again.

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Weight loss

Anyone have any tips on how to not loose a ton of weight breastfeeding. I’m trying my hardest but not having cravings anymore. Makes it hard to eat. I’ve gone from 1:30 to 1:05 and I hate it so much. I don’t know what to do but I’m not gonna stop breast-feeding just so I can keep weight.

Lopsided!

My LG only feeds from my right boob - I’ve been told by the Breastfeeding Network that this is perfectly normal which is fine. I try to pump from the left occasionally but I don’t always get round to it… now I’ve noticed that my right boob is bigger than my left (which makes sense) but does this mean I’m permanently lopsided?! Will pumping more even then out? Will it be even out when I start weaning?

Crawling?

My 6 month old is having a hard time. He is trying to crawl but he doesn’t push up on his arms. He uses his legs but not his arms. Anyone have any tips on how to help him?

Rookie mistake today, my kids are far more wise than me.

I did my daughters hair this morning, a cute little updo style with multiple little braids conjoining, anyways I used those tiny rubber bands and by the time we were in the school drop off line they had all broken because of the hair products I used I guess have oil that disintegrates rubber🫠 then when I was ranting and throwing a little hissy fit my kid just says “it’s ok nothing lasts forever”

Car seat? Help!

Hiya, I’ve slowly started buying things for baby (finally- due Oct 9). We got our pram second hand and know we need to get a new car seat. Does anyone have a recommendations? I don’t know where to start. I think I want one with an isofix base so can turn baby either way and I’ve heard they’re easier to deal with.
Thanks!

Breastfeeding for Dummies (Me)

Hello, I'm a FTM and non of my friends have breastfed, I've always said I didn't want to but my partner insists on it as his first with an ex was breastfed, I said I'd give it a try.

I'm due next month and I have no idea where to start tbf, I've seen all different types of pumps and when I've watched videos women let the baby feed off one breast and pump from the other. The pumped milk they put the milk into a flask when I've spoken to my partner he said that doesn't need to happen as I'll just switch between both.

Any advice is so appreciated, TIA.