How do you know you are done having kids?

Literally just gave birth to my 4th and the thought that this could be my last baby is not sitting well with me. At this point I want more 😢 at least one more. But what if then I’m like one more and one more?

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I think during my mom’s pregnancy with the 5th baby she knew she was done. I would definitely give it time and get on birth control or condoms just for no accidents. But I’d give it a few months and see how you feel. But i’ve heard a lot of people say you’ll know when you’re done and that happens like once you’re pregnant or maybe when baby comes.

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I knew I was done when my 1st was 2. My mental and physical health was struggling and I felt complete. I got accidentally pregnant qith my second. I love him more than life but I cant handle anymore. I know in my gut.

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This is my worry too! It’s such an addictive feeling ā¤ļø I have two daughters and I am ready for a third ! We originally agreed on two maybe 3 but the attitude has changed to ā€œfill the houseā€šŸ¤£xx

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How do you know you are done having kids?

Literally just gave birth to my 4th and the thought that this could be my last baby is not sitting well with me. At this point I want more 😢 at least one more. But what if then I’m like one more and one more?

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Chemical

I am 100% having a chemical as my tests are too light and just aren’t progressing. What do I do now? Do I just have to wait it out until I start bleeding?

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Anyone ovulated/had clear discharge then no period so far?

DEFINITELY!!! not pregnant, not using contraception (because not having sex lol), I think it was ovulation (clear discharge) a few days ago, 3m postpartum and breastfeeding. Really hoping I’m not the unlucky breast feeder who gets her period back earlier than most šŸ™šŸ»

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Help 😩

Indent or vvvfl ( like shadow )? ( taken test due to little one saying i have two babies in my belly crying 🤣) Third pic is LH and preg one you can see it there too... ( 2 pics in comments )
Could see something coming up in timeframe, but when shine a torch there is a few indent marks where the positive would be but as you can see from pic it does look like a faint line 😩 could it be possible to be a faint line? And there is a indent bit there too?
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Evap?

It’s so incredibly faint and quite thin? Does it look like an evap or faint positive? How the heck am I supposed to last until tomorrow to test againšŸ˜…

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Is the absent father better dead or alive?

Am I wrong for making an obituary for my sperm donor. He’s dead to me and I will tell my daughter that he’s dead so she doesn’t grow up feeling abandoned like I did growing up. For context he faked a dna test and posted it saying my daughter isn’t his…

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