Did anyone else have this fear? 🤍

I’m 24 weeks pregnant with my second baby, and lately I can’t stop thinking about something happening to me during childbirth and my firstborn having to grow up without me. (He will be 2ann half)😢

I know it’s probably my anxiety talking, but the thought of him not remembering me breaks my heart. Did any other moms have this fear during pregnancy? Did it get better?

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You're not alone! I've had those same thoughts myself! 8 think it's normal, especially as a first time mom. Have you been able to voice these fears with your partner or support system? I know when I do, despite it being irrational, expressing it as a simple worry or a stray thought that goes through my brain really helps to take it down a notch; my husband is able to comfort me and reassure me and if need be, if we have any questions, we try to break the thought down together to find out the source and see if we can read up on it to give me some peace of mind ❤️

These thoughts aren't easy and can weigh heavily on the mind! I'm sorry it's been on yours ❤️

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