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Ghosting

Recently was seeing this guy for a few weeks! It was going really well and he was talking about the future. We were not connecting over what we both wanted and I told him i didn’t know if we should continue to date as he wanted to become serious much faster than I would want. Anyways we never resolved that and I reached out a few times to talk and kept getting cancelled or not confirmed. I got annoyed at that and told him as a mom I’m too busy to have my time wasted with last minute cancellations and people who can’t commit to times. Later I sent a text apologizing for being pushy about wanting to meet up and that I wished him the best. He wrote back that he still would love to talk at a time that was convenient for both of us and he would wasn’t upset about it. I sent a few texts again telling him when I was around but it’s now been a week and I still haven’t heard. I feel like I’m being ghosted but feeling upset because I tried to close the door and feel like he opened it again to just not respond again. I want to talk to him as I feel like we parted ways over something that wasn’t clear and could have been misunderstood. Any advice on what to do next would be super helpful as I’ve never experienced this before and my first instinct is to send a text saying how rude this was.