Alone
So my boyfriend doesn't help with the babies I do everything while he just brings in a check then once hes home he stays on his phone or on his video game pays no attention to any of us but then acuses me of doing things im not doing here today he said I fell asleep with the baby when in fact I did not but when I told him I wasnt asleep he yelled at me basically calling me a liar and refused to listen to what I was saying then proceeded to tell me I wasn't going to breastfeed anymore I told him that wasn't his decision man help im so damn tired I have no family or friends to talk to or even anywhere to go to get an escape im stuck at this house all the time no break same routine everyday
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Ugh im sorry girl. Men seriously suck when it comes to this stuff. They think just bc they bring in a paycheck they dont need to do anything else. Its not right, you work 24/7 and he works 40 hours a week. Have you talked to him about the work/mental load?
How is he going to tell you not to breastfeed ðŸ˜
How is a man going to tell you that you cannot breastfeed . I stg men are dumb as mess sometimes. But also babe I'm not trying to say something but I don't think you got yourself a man.. you have a second child. The ick I would uck if my man tried any of that.
Do you have family or anyone who can help during the day?
Aww I'm sorry girly, whats wrong with falling asleep with the baby anyway?
You need to find your nearest women's center and go there immediately
Okay I dont know if it's the same where you are, but normally a man can't just take your babies if you go to a women and children shelter Hun. If you claim abuse they will help you get housing etc.
I really felt every thing u said about the no breast feeding thing I think they get jealousy thing
I felt the game part my husband has been the exact same was it took my literal making plans to leave to change not all the more recently since I had preeclampsia I have to take my blood pressure every day and it took a health scare for him to lock in give me time to shower cook be by myself he even takes the baby harness down stairs and plays the game know
Hit me up girl you could definitely talk to me about that I also been through that
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