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Spiritual Gangsters 🇺🇸

Family Members having after kids. (Long post)

After having kids, has anybody else had to distance from them to not let the evil spirits around your children?
I kept distance for awhile but they kept bribing us to be around us again and my babyfather told me to take advantage of it so I hung out with them again. But as soon as they saw my first kid (they disrespected her space so many times as a newborn) , they immediately got to whispering and touching her face and hair…
I told them that before i distanced that I was not comfortable with them jumping straight to touching her and they didn’t seem to remember nor care about the boundaries…
Started feeding them food that I didn’t really want them to eat etc at the restaurant, fixing their hair, putting hats on them. It was too much doing things that I didn’t feel comfortable with. I’ve been through this so many times, hence why i distanced including childhood abuse but my babyfather wanted to involve them since we were back in our hometown.

I already had a bad feeling that this would happen again and it did. I was so hesitant to be around them even though my babyfather suggested that they join us out and he also had a bad feeling after my mom invited my sister by telling me
“she should be involved too, you have so much to be thankful for”…
But I was going to just meet them one by one when I was ready to face them again.
I’m in 3rd trimester of my pregnancy and my anxiety was spiked very high because whenever they are together, they start overstepping boundaries.
I grew up with these people but as an adult, we are total different beings.
I appreciate the gifts and support but that doesn’t mean they can do whatever they want to my babies.