Friend wants to be at birth but she hasn't been following social distancing measures
I live in an area where social distancing measures are still very strictly in place, baby due in 6 weeks and my friend would like to be present at birth, but she's been going to house parties and not following social distancing, it makes me feel really uncomfortable about her being at my birth and around my newborn, I didn't realise she wasn't following the rules when I said she could be present.
What do I do now? How do I approach the subject of I don't feel comfortable with her there when she's not been following guidelines
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Either tell her directly or don't call her when you go into labor. This depends on how she reacts and what you want to deal with but your ability to prioritize your and baby's well-being is most important. She'll be okay and you can talk about it later if you want. You're not obligated to have anyone there you don't want to have.
Not sure what the testing is like where you live but you could be honest and explain your (very valid) concerns and ask that if she still wants to be present she be tested, show negative results and social distance leading up to your due date. It sounds like she may be at a different stage in her life, but that doesn’t mean she can’t still be a supportive friend. Perhaps it’s hard for her to put herself in your shoes, but you’ll never know unless you are honest and give her a shot. You’ve got this! ❤️
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