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Just found out I'm pregnant. Any tips?!

Just found out I’m pregnant!💕 I'm so scared as I've had 5 previous miscarriages and I also have PCOS. Please share advice!

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congrats x

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Firstly congratulations, hope your feeling well and doing ok so far . I'm so so sorry to hear of your losses i can sympathise a little as i miscarried last year, it's the hardest thing in the world you must such a strong person to have gone through 5. All i can say is to try and stay positive, as hard as it may be really try and relax and embrace being pregnant. I really hope and pray you get your 🌈 baby this time, the very best of luck with everything x

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Sending sticky baby dust! 💫💫💫

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Sending good vibes!

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I have PCOS too! Pray, destress the best you can ❤️

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Sending sticky baby dust hun, congratulations, I've very recently found out im pregnant with my 3rd, I think the only thing you can do is take it day by day, take your vitamins and try and be as stress free as possible xxx

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Congratulations.. rest as much as possible dont stress!xx

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My tips are do research on childhood development before your kid starts doing all the things where you stop and say 'is this normal? Wtf do i do?'

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Prayers and baby dust!!!!!

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Congratulations and good luck! I’m pregnant for the third time after two miscarriages so somewhat relate. I’m so scared it’s keeping me up at night but trying so hard not to stress. Can you book an early scan? That’s helping me as I’m just counting down to that not the whole 9 months haha. We can do this 💪🏻 hope this one sticks for you hun xx

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Don’t worry. Chase your happiness!

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It’s about to happen for you girl you’re gona see that baby come to life... 🙏🏽!!!!

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Relax Hun u be fine little bundle joy coming your way 💓 feel worried join go for extra scans reasurance and it's so calming seeing their ok ever need to talk message me x

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I’ve had 4 miscarriages and 2 successful births! With the 2 successful I took 75mg of aspirin as advised by my doctor! Apparently when the baby is implanting sometimes a little blood clot can get in the way and cause the miscarriage! I can’t be certain that it was the aspirin that worked but they said it doesn’t harm taking it either way! So it was worth the go. I’d speak to your doctor first though incase you have any under lying issues that could be made worse with the aspirin x

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Mention this to your doctor. So maybe they can monitor you more closely

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Hi! I had a friend in the same boat. Her doctor put her on progesterone to help the pregnancy in the beginning. She just delivered her baby girl last month ☺️

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Talk to your doctor about your concerns. Lots of rest water and whatever you can keep down. I’ll be praying for a successful pregnancy for you. I had a miscarriage at 20 weeks with my first and was terrified my entire pregnancy after but I had a beautiful healthy baby. The same will happen for you. Speak it into existence ❤️❤️

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I’m the same after 3 with PCOS too, just take each day as it comes and try and relax while you can. Try not to google too much x

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Congratulations!! ❤️❤️❤️

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Congratulations hope it all goes well... make sure you see your dr... no heavy lifting and rest well xxx

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Congratulations 🥰

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Congratulations and sending you lots love Mama! I too have experienced the pain and fear of two miscarriages. We went on progesterone during the first trimester of our pregnancy with our daughter Suzie who is now 8 months!

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congratulations!! drink plenty of water and eat foods high in protein :) try and keep your stress level low, girl!

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Just keep yourself from stressing as much as possible

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It sounds strange let go and give in the to the universe and a power beyond your control..... Yes rest,drink water etc but ultimately accept that what will be will be and it’s out of your control. This will bring inner peace. Nothing you do or don’t do will ultimately make a difference. X

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Thank you for everyone’s advice I appreciate you all 💕💕

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I have PCOS too! Try not to stress too much, hopefully this little one sticks! 🎉

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Congratulations I also have pcos and was nervous with my first rainbow baby. Just breathe and take it day by day. Before you know it you’ll be holding your beautiful baby. Think positive only invite positive vibes

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I have pcos and I reversed it with going gluten free pm me if you wanna talk

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Just stay positive

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Dont compare yourself to any other pregnancy and water !!!!

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Congratulations!

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Stay positive. Try not to over think. No stress is needed. WATER is your Bestfriend! Food is too 🙂🙂 But healthy food more than anything.

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I had 6 miscarriages and a stillborn before I had my daughter and I was terrified when I found out I was pregnant with her but I completely changed my lifestyle when I found out I avoided stressful situations as much as possible ate healthy foods like yoghurt and salads stay as positive as u can I know it's hard girl but believe me it helps xx

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Congratulations btw

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Congratulations and I agree with others, one day at a time.
I miscarried triplets and then had a son, another miscarriage and then had twin girls. Miracles happen, this is your time. Forget everything else and concentrate on you and staying calm xoxox

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Please practice ALL the self care. You are worth it. You are amazing. You are perfectly imperfect in your own right. It’s natural and okay to be anxious. Please don’t bottle it up. Tell your nurse midwife or obgyn, your partner, trusted family keep a journal. It’s a balance between surrendering that you have no control except over what you personally are doing and asserting yourself. You are amazing. Sending positive vibes!

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My only suggestion would be to have your progesterone checked and supplemented if necessary. Otherwise eat well, rest when you can and hope for the best. I had several miscarriages before we did testing to find out why, and I ended up with several issues on top of my PCOS, but my son is 13 weeks lod today, so it is possible even with problems

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Like everyone else has said, stay positive and (try to) stress as little as you can. Can't help it sometimes but try. And water is your friend. Congratulations!!

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Stay positive and confront whatever is making you scared, nervous, or stressed.
I was so afraid to tell my mom and despite how hard it was once I did the amount of pressure that was released is unexplainable. After that I had nothing else to stress about.

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Praying for you!🙏🏾

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Don’t be afraid to follow your instincts

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I know exactly how you feel hun I really do I'm a msg away if need to chat xxx congratulations tho hun xxx

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Congratulations 🥳, cut off the caffeine,start prenatal,include fruits and water lots and lots and exercise with ease . 🍀🍀🍀

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Stay healthy, be careful and dont do more than you think you can handle. Good luck and congratulations (:

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Congratulations

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Congratulations! It's so bittersweet. I remember being so excited, and so terrified (we lost 3 babes and had a hard time conceiving). I would take to your doctor and see if they think progesterone would help you. If you ever want someone to talk to, I'm a message away 💕

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Girl... You got this!!! If it's meant to be it will be. Again, you got this!!!

Not trying to take it there, and I pray I don't upset you. But, if children are in your future but not in your body, fostering may be the answer.

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Congratulations 💕💕 god bless you

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Congratulations. Just don't push your self to hard and remember that this is a new story and don't bring your party stories in to this one allow yourself to enjoy it as much as poss... New beginnings. Take care xx

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