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Pregnant with my rainbow!

Hello everyone !! I’m Heidi. In 2010 I had my first pregnancy. I miscarried at ten weeks. In 2018 I had my second pregnancy. I had mmc and a blighted ovum and baby did not grow passed six weeks. That loss physically almost killed me due to a lack of care from medical doctors. Anyway I am now nine weeks with my third baby. I’m sure you can understand why I am so nervous. I pray every night but I wake up crying sometimes. And sometimes I wake up thinking I’m covered in blood. I’m looking for people to reassure me. I’ve had two ultrasounds already. First one was at six weeks. The second nine weeks one day. Baby is growing and has strong heartbeat. Just want encouragement.
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I wish you the best!!! You’ve got this!!!

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Thank you so much

“This is a different pregnancy, a different baby, and a different story with a different ending.” ✨ I’ve been pregnant 4 times and have 2 healthy and happy kiddos. Thinking of you and hoping for the best!

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Thank you babe!! I’ve said all along this one just feels different. 💗💗

💛💛💛 Come on rainbow babe. Grow healthy and strong. 🤞🏼🌈

My step mom lost two babies before having my little sister. She lost two babies again, and ended up having my little brother. There is always hope mama! You can do anything 💞 congratulations!

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I’m currently 38weeks with my rainbow baby, I’ve had losses at 9 weeks 10 weeks and 20 weeks, try not to stress relax and talk to people about how you’re feeling especially your midwife. Although it’s always going to be hard, everyday I wake up I wait for the first kick and movement I wish you good luck though out and if you have any questions or worries feel free to message me 💞 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

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I’m nine weeks and two days and every day I pray the baby survives.

Aww congrats!!!

I had a blighted ovum in 2017, and now I have a rambunctious 2 year old! Think positive and relax! You got this mama ♡ And Congratulations 💕

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Thank you and congrats to you too!

Thank you ♡

You and you beautiful baby got this momma

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Thank you 💗

I had MMC & blighted ovum last July, and lost another at 9 weeks in November. I’m now 37+5 with my rainbow. Every pregnancy is different, I had a bit of counselling which completely changed my attitude and yes there I have been nerves but totally changed my attitude to pregnancy. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed being pregnant. One of the key things I took (but was sceptical at first) was to stop looking at what could go wrong and look at what could go right xxxxxx

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All the best! I'm thinking of mine as a miracle baby. Had a mmc last October, bleeding in early pregnancy with this one, but otherwise I'm 36+2 and it seems to be going well. Best wishes!

Keep strong and sending you love ❤️ You’ve reached 9 weeks and have a healthy baby, hold onto that and stay positive. Each week will get easier and if you ever have any worries or concerns or just need some reassurance just speak to your midwife. Enjoy mumma, congrats ❤️

Try to relax and stay calm the best thing you can do is be positive for yourself. Putting out good energy attracts good energy! 🎉 Congratulations sweetheart I wish you all the best 💗🌸

Oh my babe, I can’t even begin to imagine how stressful this is on you and ur body. I will be praying for u for sure :) trust in your body and make sure ur energy is focused on keeping urself healthy! U got this! My auntie was the same and then finally had her baby girl! So I believe it will happen for u too

I had 2 losses last year and now very thankfully pregnant for third time and 21 weeks today. I have never been so anxious and scared as I have been since seeing those 2 pink lines, but just keep enjoying each milestone as best you can. Getting yourself worked up won’t help you or baby and I know it’s easier said than done, but this one is obviously a little fighter and wants to stick around. Best of luck and congratulations! xx

Try and stay as positive as you can, regularly read positive affermations such as these. You can and will do this and you'll have your rainbow baby! 🌈 https://peanut.app.link/b19454jTCab

What’s a Rainbow baby ? I’ve seen it everywhere lately

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It’s a baby born after loss

Oh okay cool thanks for educating me !

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Congratulations! I was worried at the start of my pregnancy I only really started to relax when I felt her move and it started to feel real! Hormones at the start of pregnancy rocket well they did for me anyway! Try and take a walk or keep your mind busy if not your body. It does help! Best of luck! X

I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks in early 2019, I know the pain of losing a baby, it nearly broke me. 6 months after my miscarriage I fell pregnant again, I wish I could say I was happy and positive the whole way through, but there was always a little voice in the back of my head that asked whether something was going to go wrong again. Thankfully I now have a happy and healthy 14 week old, my rainbow baby. Stay strong, think positive and if you have any worries share them, we’re all here to help and support.

I have a rainbow baby and throughout my entire pregnancy I was worried that something would go wrong. I was petrified they’d find something wrong. Even when I had my 20 weeks scan I couldn’t believe everything was normal. Now she is 11 weeks old and a healthy strong little girl and I still can’t believe she’s here! You’ll never forget your other little angels but believe this one is for keeps. Xxx

When your feeling anxious try relaxing with meditation I know it may sound silly vut it can help you calm down again and it will be good for both you abd baby. Goodluxk wishing you all the best and I know its easier said than done but please try to relax xxxx

Bless you luv I can not begging to imagine how you are feeling I never had any loss and every time I'm pregnant I feel so anxious till it comes out, praying for you try and relax and enjoy it to the fullest xxx congratulations 🤗🤗

I lost mine at 16 weeks in 2015 and another last November at 7 weeks. This one is growing strong I'm currently 15 weeks but since losses this is my 1st healthy pregnancy. I fully understand how you feel it's so hard not to let that negative voice in your head get to you. A part of me is so excited but then this little voice tells me to calm down incase something goes wrong again. I put it down to being a defence mechanism because we know how much pain we were in with the loss of our little ones. I also had the dreams that I was covered in blood at the start and the closer I get to 16 weeks like the last i lost, the dreams are more graphic and it's super scary. I just try and tell myself this time is different and I pray every day that this one keeps growing strong. As crazy as it sounds i also talk to my belly and pep talk the baby like please keep growing big and strong we are all so excited to meet our healthy beautiful baby. Good luck to you I hope all continues to go well!! xx

I had a mc last year and now I’m currently 38 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby. I had dreams about having a miscarriage all the time and I’d also wake up crying and it worried me a lot. The dr appointments definitely gave me that reassurance that my baby was growing healthy and the dreams slowly stopped. Don’t lose hope and remain as positive as you can!💕

I will keep you in my prayers. I have never gone through that but I heard there are groups that meet & discuss this incidents & get therapy. (Just a suggestion) It may alleviate the stress, the pain & sadness. God bless you, your baby & family.

Hi Heidi 😊 I totally understand where you are coming from. The anxiety after losses is so overwhelming... I’ve had two late miscarriages which tore my world upside down 💔 but I’m now pregnant again and almost 21 weeks. 🙏🏼😃 I still have the traumatic feelings of my waters breaking and but I just try to stay as calm as I can. I find meditation helps I wish you all the best with this pregnancy and I will be keeping you in my prayers 🙏🏼♥️

Good luck!!! That is my biggest fear, I’m just 4weeks, learned this week

Congrats on your rainbow baby! I was very scared after my mmc too but now I have a healthy 9 month old little girl. You’ll have your baby in your arms soon, mama 💗

I also am pregnant with my rainbow baby. I have a 4 year old. Before her I miscarries at 8 weeks, then after her miscarries at 6 weeks. But she was a perfectly healthy pregnancy and I’m now 20 weeks pregnant with a boy who so far is perfectly healthy! I’ll be praying for you

I have four miscarriages.. my first two were twins.. lost at 14wks..my second and third I lost at 8 wks.. pregnant again and I'm at eleven weeks and everything seems okay so far. Praying for you beautiful momma. Just keep good faith and take good care of yourself. I'm sure you'll have a healthy baby. 💜💜 I can totally relate to the nightmares and anxieties of the thoughts on another possible miscarriage but don't stress yourself out over it. Keep in check with your doc as often as you need to get your reassurance and comfort you need in knowing you're alright. Keep you in my prayers 💚💚

Yay! I tried for a couple years before going to a fertility doctor. My problem in previous miscarriages were that I don’t make enough progesterone and taking the shots helped. Once we got past 16 (or so weeks) I was taken off and Now I’ve got a beautiful 15 month old!

I can't imagine what you're going through. I had a ton of complications with my pregnancies. Stay strong mama. You can do this. Reach out if you ever need someone to talk or cry to.

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Hello lovely! I has two miscarriages before my son (one 11w, one 8w). He is 1 now and I am pregnant again 12 weeks. The truth is I was paranoid with my son that everytime I went to the toilet would see blood in my underwear. Any growth pain was always huge anxiety. I let go around 25 weeks, not fully but I started enjoying it. The truth is that the only thing you can do is look after yourself. Our bodies work in a very mysterious way. The only thing I can tell you is that with my son and now I take pregnancare. I didnt take that with my first two. Not sure if its a coincidence or maybe it works.. Good luck and I hope you are gonna feel good and have a beautiful baby!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Good luck, I will keep all you ladies in my prayers inbox me if you ever want to chat 🤍

It's so hard I know how you feel. I got pregnant in April 2019 I was over the moon. I couldn't help but tell everyone about it. Then I Had a miscarriage 6 weeks later at work.. It was the worst day of my life.. And Thought of telling everyone what had happened OH MY God 2 months later I was pregnant again 😳 the 9 months of Carrying my baby was just hell.. then I gave brith to my Beautiful baby boy During a pandemic April 2020...what luck. Had to stay in hospital because he was very small Was not allowed any visitors Not even my partner.. He was there for the birth but had to leave afterwards... But my boy was totally worth it 6 months old and healthy... I really hope my story makes you see some light

I had every anxiety. I went to the hospital early on because I had no idea what was normal bleeding. I called my OB/Midwife all the time for reassurance. Reassurance goes a long way. Stay positive mama. Congrats on your rainbow baby. ❤

I miscarried at 6 weeks in 2018, fell pregnant in 2019 and had my son in April this year . He's was my rainbow 🌈 , you'll smash it xx

Congratulations love. I’m very happy for you. Sounds like this babe is a sticky bean and that they’re strong and healthy! 😍🥳💙

I'm here to tell you god got you mama. I know its scary. But pray and try to rest your mind. I'm also waiting on my rainbow baby.

Prayers for you momma. It's challenging to place our greatest fears in God's hands. Especially when we re-live our trauma and past experiences. I've had four confirmed miscarriages. Others I suspected I miscarried very early (4wks). My second rainbow baby was heavy on my heart as I found myself constantly worrying about him. Each time I thought, I'm going to loose this baby, I gave those feelings over in prayer and reminded myself of Job. Even though God took everything from him, God blessed him more.

Praying for you, mama! I miscarried in 2009 as well and I now have my handsome little guy. I can understand what you're going through. I worried just about every day of my pregnancy until I was finally able to feel him kick and have that reassurance that he was okay in there. Praying for a healthy pregnancy for you❤

Hi there xx I have my rainbow baby too xx I had a terrible 2 miscarriages xxx

Be positive bbe..

Thank you all

Prayers prayers prayers💙🤍💜

My rainbow baby is now a beautifil and healthy 4 month old baby boy

I’ve had 3 early miscarriages and am now 35 weeks pregnant with my rainbow 🌈 baby. Praying for you & stay strong.

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Congratulations!!

I had 2 miscarriages before my rainbow 🌈 baby! Praying for you!

Definitely praying for u hun ❤️

Aww praying for you. Be positive. Try not to worry too much and just leave it up to God. My rainbow is 4.5 months.

Ive had a miscarriage before both my babies and then had a healthy pregnancy woth both you just gotta wait up and try and forget your pregnant untill you pass 12 weeks easier said then done i guess as i worry alot but i now have a 1 yr old and nearly 3 yr old

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