Non-binary parents unite!

I’m Raven, a non-binary parent/mom. Realized this a few years ago.

Hiya! I’m Cal (they/them) 😊 so excited to find a group like this. I’m from a small village so basically know of no other non binary parents like me 😕 so excited to be here!

I am so greatful there are groups like this. I tried to reach out in a Facebook community I am in for people that identify as Genderfluid, like I am! And I made the comment on there am that I was dealing with quite a bit of Dysphoria because I of the pregnancy and not being able to wear my binders or packers as much as I typically do. I adore and love my body and aprechiate it a lot! As it is right now! But I also know I identify as Genderfluid and two spirited ! I see it I guess a lot like a Yen and Yang where I myself have both female and male sides to myself not one or the other . And I accept that that’s not how all people see themselves , gender is different and unique for us all! I just felt very isolated and alone when admitted how hard a time I was having and was so voluntarily Vulnerable I was feeling and it was allowed to be posted but literally NO ONE ! Said one kind thing to me! So automatically i felt judged in my own community!

So, I know this is normally when someone wants one gender more than the other but do any of my other enby parents feel a weird disappointment knowing that they’ll generally have to refer to their baby as one or the other? We’re choosing not to find out until birth and I feel like I’m not ready to find out. Like… I just want them to not have to deal with all the gender stuff at all. Everyone else is excited to “find out” and I’m almost dreading it.

Hey! I noticed groups like this are rare, so I wanted to just say hey and hopefully make some friends.