🇨🇦 CANADIAN MOMMAS 🇨🇦

I’m terrified, I don’t want to be pregnant. I had 3 by the time I was 24. I have my flo app set up to tell me when I can get pregnant so I can avoid those days. my fiancé and I barley have sex. He’s the type to keep begging and begging even after I say no. I just give in to get it over with. He was begging back on June 4th I told him no because that’s one of the days I could possibly get pregnant. He was begging like wouldn’t stop. I gave in and I told him he’s pulling out. He promised he would and he held me against him so I couldn’t move. He did the same thing 2 nights ago. And he was saying while we were having sex “did you ever consider that I want more kids”. ’m supposed to get my period today and it hasn’t come. I also get before period cramps every time and it hasn’t come. I already have 2 under 2 and I don’t want that again. Before anyone says “just go on birth control or get an IUD” I have tried 5 different birth controls between 16 and 18 and each time I would puke them up right after. My family Dr suggested an IUD at 18. Once I got it put in and I was leaving the hospital I collapsed. They brought me back and my body was rejecting it. I don’t know what to do if I am. I’m so scared. I actually wanted to enjoy my summer this year. I have my cousins wedding and a trip planned with a friend. I’m not saying I need alcohol to have fun but it would be nice to have a summer where I can just sip on a drink out in the sun. This would my third summer pregnant.

Okay so a little back ground. Last night I pooped, when I wiped it felt like there was still poop that needed to be cleaned up. So I grabbed a new piece of tp when I wiped there was no poop on the tp, only thing I found was blood. I called my fiancé into the bathroom just to make sure I wasn’t see things. I looked up why I could be beeping from my butt. It said Hemorrhoid, anal fissures, inflammatory bowel disease (IBD) and colorectal cancer. I have no idea what to do. There’s no walk in clinics near me, only option is to go to the hospital but do I really want to sit there for over 12hrs. I’m voiding out a hemorrhoid because there’s no pain when I sit but it does feel tender when I wipe. I’m also lactose intolerant so if I drink/eat any dairy you bet your butt I’m going poop every 5 minutes. Has anyone else experienced this? Also another factor, I’m peeing soooo much. Like I mean 10-15 times in an hour. I have to pee as soon as I hear water running, I take one sip of anything I’m gone to the bathroom. It gets so bad that I find myself going to the bathroom more times than I can count. If I had to say how many times I’m peeing in a day it’d probably be over 150. My mom thinks I might have a bladder infection.

Mamas, I need an alternative suggestions. My babygirl uses Hello Bello Fragrance Free shampoo and wash but we can’t find it anywhere! She has eczema and this is what we found worked best, is there any alternatives? Please help. Aveeno, Cerave, and aquaphor don’t work.

We are travelling from Toronto to Florida with our 19 month old baby. I’m lost - do we bring her car seat? Stroller? Am I going to pay an arm and leg to bring these on the plane?

I have an interview but due end of April, should I tell them I’m pregnant yet?