Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

Hi is there anyone going through family court right now please comment so we can connect and take eachother advice and support

I cannot stop feeling guilty while sons at his dads house every week, who else goes through this?

My daughter’s father has always been extremely hard work. It’s his way or no way. Anyway, he told me the other week that he was away on the Sunday (his usual day) so couldn’t have her. This was fine and I had made plans to take her out for the day with friends. It got to the Sunday morning, and he told me that he was having her and that he meant this weekend. He got very nasty over message when I said that we had gone out as he told me he wasn’t seeing her (voice note to prove it) and I ended up bringing her home so he could see her. This weekend, we are in a similar situation. He can’t have her so I have booked and paid to take her out to an animal park. I’ve now just been told that his parents want her for a few hours. Am I right to be annoyed with that he keeps swapping and changing all the time? What do I do? She’s never been on her own with his parents and is extremely unsettled as it is at the moment and absolutely hates going with him and his parents.

My 5 y.o has been having the worst attitude towards his siblings and I for a while now. (Not just attitude either, he’s been hitting his brother as well) Everyday is a battle with him and I’m struggling so bad mentally bc of it. Has anyone else dealt with this? It gets really bad when he comes back from his dads & I have no idea what to do because his dad is high conflict asf and I can NEVER get a useful conversation out of him.

Hey mommas, I have a 4 year old little girl who at times wakes up in the middle of the night crying sometimes screaming for an hour or more at times.Minding you she only does it at my house she doesn’t do it at her father’s house.Father and I are not together.It’s becoming more frequent is there any other mamas experiencing this. Please help!