TTC: Irregular cycles

Has anyone conceived without a period?

So my cycle is really irregular. Like I’m talking can go months without a period and then bleed for weeks. I’ll post my cycle in the comments from when I had my son December 2020 until now. I just feel so alone about it since I want another baby so bad yet it feels my body is so against me.

Also to add it seems I only really get a cycle the first couple months of the year and then nothing the rest. It even happened in 2020 when I got pregnant with my son. I got pregnant with him in march found out end of April and had him end of December

Hey all, I’ve been off my BC for over a year now with no pregnancy yet. We’ve very much been trying without trying (not watching cycles, planning, etc. just doing our regular stuff and hoping we might get lucky) but have not conceived.

I’ve always had an irregular cycle since I first started at 12. I’ve only been to a gyno once and I’ve since moved states. I have no doctors here (not even a PHP) and I don’t even know where to start looking.

The only gyno I saw (shortly after stopping my BC last year) told me she didn’t think I ovulate naturally and would probably need hormone treatments to kickstart ovulation. She said she wasn’t that concerned about it being something harmful to me, just a bump in the road to conceiving, and said to let her know when we were actually ready and then we would readdress the issue. Which is why I never went back.

Does anyone have any tips on where to start for this? We’re ready to start seriously trying but we’re feeling kind of lost. None of our family has ever dealt with any fertility issues and we’re feeling very alone.

I live in Northern New Jersey, if it’s applicable.

I’m only on my 2nd month of TTC/tracking my ovulation. Last cycle I had a clear LH surge of ~56. I’m on cycle day 21 and the highest my LH has gotten so far was 2 days ago around LH level of 15. I can’t figure out if that was my surge for this cycle or not. My cycles vary from 29-50 days long (average is 35 days).

I started tracking my ovulation last month and the app seemed to be indicating my fertile window with my LH peak no problem but this month it’s trying to say I’m in my fertile window now when I’m definitely not peaking. Will this correct itself once I actually am peaking? Idk why it’s even predicting it to happen this early bc last month my peak was on CD 17/18. I think it’s bc I had a pretty short luteal phase.