Before the baby was born we said baby came first and gaming would be on the back burner until he is older.
before he returned to work i let him have a few games 2 hours fast turned into 7 hours. After returning to work he goes to work comes home has a shower, he used to watch him for 10 so i could shower now he will go on his games for 1 hour (turns into 4-5 hours everytime) asks me whats for tea then has tea on the computor then goes in the bath and bed.
he will change his dipers on a night time but when i ask if he is going to spend more time with the baby he just says "hes asleep" or "he will only cry". He has promised to come off games more when the baby is older and reconises him and i have tried to say if he doesnt bond with him now he wont have any of it when hes older but doesnt seem to be going through.
I am annoyed. I litrally look after the baby 23/24 hours of the day and hes a velcrow baby so wont be put down for longer than two minutes. Baby has 3 good wake periods a day 1 when dad is home and hes always finishing up the game to come see the baby. Baby is awake normally 1.5 hours he plays arc raiders .. 30 minute round games max he never seems to finish his game on time before the baby goes back to nap