Should I feel bad for telling my husband that I sort of resent him for making me feel like I’m not doing anything with my life and feel like I’m in a box (we recently moved and it’s been about 6 months that I haven’t found a job ) I had a job at my old city and now it seems like there isn’t anything for me hear ..
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I mean.. I … feel like more context is needed.
I’m assuming with the way you said it, you moved wherever for opportunities for him or something. With there being nothing that you’ve found for yourself yet or did look into or find before moving. Did you do it willingly, like happily?
Or was this like you had no choice. He upped your life completely and now you have nothing.Does he tell you you’re useless and doing nothing with your life?
Or as you said you just feel this way, after said move?
I personally think one answer deserves actual resentment pointed out with good reason, and one answer gives you… an understandable frustration, yes, but I do think just jumping to telling him you resent him, actually blaming him, that might be a little harsh?
But still a conversation should definitely be had if you’re feeling resentful in anyway way, of course. No matter the context.

No! I do not think you are in the wrong at all. He shouldn’t be putting u down you are growing a whole a$$ human and you are in a new place — that’s a lot of change for a person. he should be understanding and allow you the time you need to adjust. He should be encouraging you not putting you down pregnancy is hard as it is without the added stress of your husband making you feel like your not going anywhere in life. It’s just a season. You’ll find something eventually and get adjusted sometimes it just takes time.