And you and that parent didn't get along are you still go to the funeral?
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I would ask if they’re comfortable with me going but generally speaking yes I would go.

It definitely depends on my partners relationship with that parent. If it was just an issue I had I would absolutely go to support my partner. But if my partner had an issue with their parent and doesn't wanna go then fuck no I am not going.

I’d be there to support my partner, not necessarily to grieve the parent if we didn’t have a relationship.

Of course, out of respect and support for my partner.

Yes. Funerals are for the living, not the dead. I would be there to support my partner.

No I wouldn’t go. Only if my partner wants me to.
It’s bad to attend a funeral of someone u didn’t like, that deceased persons family might not want that energy there. They might only want people that loved her truly. People’s emotions are all over the place and they might see u wrong and u could bring them negative vibes.

Yes ! Regardless of my feelings. I would never let my partner bury their parent alone.