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Did anyone else baby have a hard time with textures when it pertains to solids. My son is 9 months and he still only eats the food that is mashed or puree. Do you think this is a phase? Or does anyone have any tips?

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Could definitely be a phase. Some people may say it sounds like autism, but it’s too early to get him diagnosed. I’d wait till he’s a few years old to get him evaluated with autism. Only because this generation is so quick to label little quirks with diagnoses when the kids are actually perfectly fine.

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My daughter had the opposite problem! She didn’t (and still doesn’t at almost 2) like things with a mashed or mushy texture. For example, bread, mashed potatoes, avocado, and oatmeal have been things she always disliked.

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I completely know what you’re talking about. My son struggled with textures for a couple months. Meal times were so stressful for me because he was not eating. He would get angry and start crying because the inly thing he liked were purees. I started taking him to a feeding therapist (a speech language pathologist) and they were able to give me a few tips.
1. I guess I was giving too complex textures or maybe the food wasn’t soft enough (he didn’t get his first teeth until 10 months).
2. I discovered that he liked to be able to grab his food, so I startrd making his food in pancake form. As long as I could mash it with my fingers it was good.
3. If certain foods were slippery I would add hemp hearts (like tiny pieces of banana with hemp hearts). They would help with the grip plus very packed with nutrients.
4. I slowly started introducing different textures. So for example he hated the texture of scrambled eggs. So I slowly started introducing them. He would usually ignore them…

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Oh and also, outside of meal times, give your baby textured teethers to play with. This will help them to get used to putting textured things in their mouth.

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When he was away, I did miss him and wanted him to come back but now he’s back, I want him to go away again😂
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Let’s say you’re at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. They’re very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
They’re sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasn’t going to eat it, and they didn’t ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
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