God i feel like I am going mad.. thr pains in my legs and arms, headaches and always feeling like rubbish. I am 48, still have periods but a lot more irregular than they were. Its the aches and pains I can't cope with, they keep me up during the night most nights . I am slightly over weight but I am worried about taking hrt incase I gain weight as weight gain already takes over my life. Any ideas?? Or am I really going mad?