I feel so guilty about this, but we found out we are having a baby boy yesterday and I am so upset about it. I was hoping for a girl, i knew it might be a boy, I didn’t think I would be this upset about having a boy. I feel like I’m stereotyping my baby who hasn’t even come into the world yet. I know he will be his own unique self and that his gender won’t define that. But I’m just so scared of toxic masculinity in this world when he is older. Any tips on how to get over this gender disappointment? I know I’ll love him when he is born, but I’m feeling so disconnected from him right now and I don’t know how to make it better. It’s so strange because before I got pregnant I always wanted a baby boy and only when I got pregnant I started hoping for a girl. I know this a group of boy moms so hoping some of your experience can bring me out of this funk!