Hi mommas, looking for some caring words or advise. I am driving myself a lil crazy. My twins are now 7-months old and at least one of them, if not both, still wake up in the middle of the night (usually once, sometimes twice).
My toxic trait is I complain when I don’t get help and complain when I do because it’s not done my way. They also don’t have consistent childcare (first it was grandparents now it’s SIL). Which I think is reason why they don’t sleep through the night. Am I crazy to think that?
I have no control over their nap times, how long they sleep, how much they get fed throughout the day . . . I started trying Ferber method on one of the babies (the other is great at falling asleep on his own) but it isn’t followed for nap times and it makes it harder on baby and me.
I need some help/love/support understanding if my frustration is valid or if I should let go a bit and let things be??
Thank you village 🙏🏽