Co-sleeping Mamas

Help!! How can i get my 3 year old to sleep all night and in his own bed ill take ANY aavice

Hi guys. I have a 5 month old and we converted his cot into a side car, attached to our bed. At the moment we will go to bed together around 10pm. From 8-10pm our wee one is usually sleeping on one of us in a carrier and then he lies down properly when I go to bed. I’m starting to feel a bit overwhelmed with this now because I don’t have absolutely any time to breathe by myself before I do the whole night shift after the whole day shift. As much as I adore my wee one I just need a breather to catch up on things. Just wondering if those who bed share pop their wee ones down in bed and then leave with a monitor until you join them later? How did this go for you and how did you make the bed safe since your body isn’t there to block them rolling out one way? Many thanks in advance

Hello! I EBF and have co-slept pretty much since birth. My daughter is now almost 5 months and we have had a rough sleep regression. I’ve woke up in the night a few times and found she has latched herself on and is comfort feeding. She’s done this completely independently while I was asleep. I know she can latch without actually waking up so I’m not worried that she’s been awake and I’ve slept through it. I guess what I’m asking is is it safe that I’ve been feeding my baby unknowingly while I sleep?

How did any of you mommas with toddlers get them to sleep and stay in their beds at night I’ve tried it before but she kept coming into my room crying or she would cry and say she’s scared we keep the hallway light on if not we plug in Christmas lights and she has three night lights in her room she’s three and I want my bed to myself now 🥺

I occasionally co sleep on nights when my Lb won’t settle, can I keep him in his sleeping bag when I co sleep or should I remove it?