You Got This Mama

Having a hard time lately with parenting in the household my husband and I have two different views I am a more gentle parent and he is more harsh in my opinion. Our son is 2, and there’s a lot of outside stresses in general right now- my husband works full time, I’m a SAHM, we have a 2 year old, a 12 week old puppy, I’m due with our second child currently 35 weeks, we have a new house which has been renovated and we certainly have debt at this point from what we did to the house to get to where we are now- so to say we’re in an okay head space is few and far between lately. We have kind of been at odds with one another because of all this stress but we both know it’s a temporary situation and we will get thru it. Anyway long story I told- he thinks I baby our son and I think he is too harsh and has little to no patience with him. Any suggestions on how to come to a middle ground or just suggestions I’m general to help us in this time. Much appreciated.

*for instance today I got a little triggered because our son is in a hitting phase right now (hitting/kicking/pinching/biting) and our dog is a puppy and has puppy teeth and he’s bite-y and they sometimes play well together and other times it’s almost impossible to have them be near each other because they both won’t listen- so anyway our son twice i had hit my husband and he said “what is wrong with you” and I just couldn’t help but get triggered because I think that to myself a lot and I don’t want my sons inner voice to be telling him that *

My family is telling me what she does is not normal. She’s basically full of energy and does not sit still a single second of the day and is always pulling stuff. She does whatever she wants even if i say no a million times. If I call her name she just continues doing whatever she wants. If call her name and say LOOK PIZZA she will look up at me immediately. What am I doing wrong? I thought kids are suppose to be like this at this age to learn and explore. Yeah I’m exhausted trying to tame her all the time. She doesn’t stay in my arms for more than 2 minutes and then wants to be picked up all the time. If I walk 10 feet away from her she will freak out. Just separation anxiety. I know it will be a while until she is more chill but at what point will she listen to me and obey? Any advice? Thanks.

I don’t love my baby’s father and I just feel trapped into staying with him because there’s no one else out there who wants a mom. Does anyone else feel like this? It makes me sad because I couldn’t start that ideal family and having a supportive husband to be able to have another child. I dont want to have another child with this guy at all. Im not attracted to him and he’s just very stupid and immature. I was blind when I first met him. My parents make me feel like crap for ever seeing anything in him when i really never did see much other than he’s the guy who im having a baby with.

So I’m looking for a baby crib for my son. He outgrew his pack n play crib. So, what that being said, I need your help choosing a nice crib. Let me know what you think will look best with our bedroom. I will send the picks of the cribs down below. Thanks in advance ladies 🤗❤️

I've been waiting to have a baby for the last 15 plus years. I've had a conversation with my husband. We are both a bit older hes in his 40s and I'm late 30s. We are getting the testing done to see if the baby has down syndrome. I dont know what to do if its positive. Most of the down syndrome adults I know need assistance the rest of their lives. Since we are older I would hate something happen to us and our child be left without help. I know they are very special children. But I just keep thinking since we are older I wont be around to take care of them. Is this crazy?