my first pregnancy and we won’t be having another, and we have just found out we are having a boy! I feel extremely guilty for being upset 😢 I always dreamt of a girl and now I will never have the mother daughter relationship I hoped for

Exactly my feeling, today I found out is a boy. I always dreamed about girl. My bf has already son and daughter, he wanted third one only because of me

I’m feeling the same way. I already have a boy and dreamt of having a girl. Even my vivid dreams showed me I was having a girl. But I found out I am having a boy and to say I am shattered is an understatement.. I’m not having anymore kids after this one and so I feel like I was robbed of having a daughter to share things with that I never could. Ballet, dresses, nail shop stops, bonding over my future grandchildren she’d have, just so much I’ll never get to have now and I’m just devastated. It’s been two days and I still feel like crap. I know I’ll get over it and love my son so much when he gets here but I can’t help but mourn what I will never have