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Then start getting your life together. Get a job first thing, start saving money without him knowing and then make a move. Living like this will kill your essence and you will be lost. You are stronger than you think and things will be OK in the end even will be hard to start with. But keeping to live like this will not bring you anything good. There is money you can borrow from government and all sorts of scheme that could help you leave this life. Start doing your research and believe in yourself. You can do better than this. Good luck.
@Roxana-Maria how to get a job when I have the baby full time. I’m 18 I got pregnant at 17 and I wasn’t able to finish high school. So I don’t even have a high school diploma and nobody to watch the baby.
@Afi he is 25
You know the best way to get back at a cheating partner? LEAVE! they come running back crying and shit after missing you and your life together. ‘You don’t know what you have until it’s gone’ applies, and they see the consequences of their actions which encourages them to change. Staying by their side through their stupidness? Yeah that doesn’t do anything
Try finding one of those working from home jobs. Might not be easy but is worth starting to look onto when you get some free time.
You can get your GED through a community college. It’s the same as a high school diploma. At this point, let him be. Build yourself back up and come up with a plan while you are still living with him….don’t tell him anything, then once you have gotten to where you want to be, leave…
@Oh Me Oh Mai while I was working on it he went and got it LLC. behind my back and changed all the accounts stuff in his name so the money goes to his account. And I didn’t know until I try to get the name LLC a few days later and by then already had the website up in the products made it and then he tried to convince me to be business partners, but you know how that goes next thing you know it he’s the CEO and I’m an employee.
So you was a minor when he impregnated you? Oh love, it’s on you to come up with a plan for you and your baby.
And OMG, you're 18? So young to waste your life like this, more reasons to leave that shit head. Go to your family and tell them your situation they might not let you alone in this.
@Afi yeah will you put it like that. Damn. I did try talking to my family and his family. No one wants to get involved any more. I just get told that. It’s between us too and when I was 17 and I moved out to live here at the course but I left anyway because I thought he was the one and now my parents really don’t wanna deal with me because of him and my decision. I feel so damn retarded y’all this is what I have been saying you don’t have real friends or someone to talk to you and you think that this shit is OK
Have you tried telling your parents what he has done to you and that you want to leave him? Tell them you need a bit of help just to get back on your feet. Try talking again and try telling them you've made a mistake falling for this garbage but you need a bit of support. I'm so sad you are in this situation, you're so young and should be enjoying life. Really hope you find a way out .
@Roxana-Maria I’ll try my best to. Thanks so much.
The fact that he said it’s different because he’s a man, tells you that he will never stop cheating on you even if he forgives you. Just leave tbh
You’re way too young to waste your time with this man.
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Wow, the guy couldn't have sex for a couple weeks so he went and cheated?? Some men...
This was a lot to take in, and I'm sure some of the details got jumbled up here, so idk everything. What I do know is this guy found a young girl he could easily control and victimize. At 25, you're not typically trying to marry an 18 year old. When she has no family, friends, or people around to protect her, she becomes the perfect target. Please don't play along with his games. He's not hurt that you talked to other guys. He just knows that he's losing control of you, and he's trying to gain back the leverage he had over you. Girl, go back to your parents / family. Idc if you have to crawl on your knees and beg them, cry your heart out. You chose the wrong one, that's ok, it happens. But don't hold yourself back by thinking that your family won't accept you back. They just don't want you running back and forth. They don't want to get involved if you're just going to take him back. Show them that you're done this time, and get away from that man for good.
@👑Jess👑 I agree 100% with what you said!!
Wait he told you he didn't, but turn around and said he wore protection like that even better? Wait and if the male was your friend he would invited you inside not to sleep in your car 🤰. I hope you kit friends with him no more. Men can't handle the same hurt they put us through. Real talk. Girl you don't have to apologize he cheated on you. You didn't have sex with no one he did. Thats what men do they get us to feel bad and they fell like what they did was right. SMH men get on my nerves. Don't feel guilty shit you didn't do nothing. I hate when men say it's different because they men. Shit cheating doesn't have a gender preferences. Men and women cheat. TF. Girl let me get off this post ya man making me mad. I hate when men do this.
Wait how you let him take over your business? Is everything in your name? Message me . I can help you get your business back.
@Afi it’s really because I have no one. My moved far from our family and I don’t work. I started a business but he took it over and now it’s his. I don’t have any friends.. all of my friends are his friends wife’s so they are not going to help me. I stay because I didn’t want to be homeless with a baby.