IGNORANT FIL🤬

Today was my anatomy scan. My bf sends a cute 3D pic to his family GC In the pic the baby is holding her arms up to the face like in a fighting stance (my bf is a boxer soo this was soo funny). His mom replies normal response. FIL replies “look like some long arms” 🤣 we like here he go being weird. like how the arms look long in that position vs. maybe i could see if the arms stretched out straight. whatever men are stupid. He then proceeds to say “Baby going to have knuckles dragging on the ground like monkey” i’m like WTF smh a his sister responds “dang dad starting already the baby is not even here yet” Everyone including me knows how he is , he is basically the hater of the family and wears it proudly, never has anything nice to say. I just told my bf I need him to check him because I honestly don’t like how that comment is bothering me lol It bothers my bf too but not as much because everyone really has learned to ignore this man’s ignorance. But I feel like this boundary needs to be put in place NOW because I honestly do not like the the thought of my child being compared to a monkey/gorilla/orangutan SMH. This SHIT doesn’t need to happen again whether the baby is here or not. So hopefully he takes the warning seriously because after that it’s no excuses. This is his first grandchild he need to get it together SMH. My bf did clap back initially telling him the only one that look apelike is himself. 🤣Because HONESTLY it’s true🤣 If ANYBODY looks like a ape he is the closest contender🤦🏽‍♀️
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I find that older people/grandparents often say cliches or try ro hide their shitty comments in the guise of a joke. I would be calling him out on it like crazy, and not clapping back just looking him right in the eye and saying "that isn't funny and I don't appreciate it" Hopefully if you're consistent he MIGHT learn to keep his mouth shut unless he has something nice to say

@Debs Thank you & that’s exactly what i plan on doing. No point of sitting there being irritated or waiting till next time he needs to know every. single. time. not to cross that line.

I would not be sharing any more pics with him. My FIL said something negative about our puppy when we sent him a pic and that pissed me off. And that's a puppy not a baby!

But what Debs said is probably better 👍❤️

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