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Me and my MIL get along for the most part but there's some things she does/says that I don't like/agree with but before having my baby I was able to ignore it but since baby boy has been born i feel like the things she does/says piss me off even more now especially when she says stuff about my son. Lately she has been saying my son is a cry baby which is dumb because he honestly is not. Of course he cries when he's hungry or tired. Which that's what babies fucken do. But the other day she called him a latoso (annoying in Spanish) and that pissed me off so bad. I wanted to say something but I didn't because I knew if I did then it would not have been nice. I still try not to say something especially because my husband can be a mama's boy and we currently live with his parents. So I keep my mouth shut. I did talk to my husband about it and he just tells me to ignore it and that it's what Mexican parents do but it's honestly getting harder to ignore it. And I feel like the linger I keep my mouth shut one day ima go off. I told my husband he needs to move us out asap because Idk if I can hold my tongue for much longer when she talks about my son.
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Oh no ma’am. I don’t mean to be rude but Your husband needs to step tf up, be a man, and let his mom know to respect you and your baby. That is not cool. You gotta put your foot down a little harder and let him know if he doesn’t say anything then you will.. That’s disrespectful and that’s supposed to be her grandson. She had your husband as a baby. I’m pretty sure he cried and fussed all of the time too. Since he can’t be a man about it, have a heart to heart conversation with her and let her know that it’s not okay to say stuff like that. Especially if she’s not willing to lift up a finger and help..

Decide what you need to say, practice beforehand and tell them calmly that they aren't to speak to your child like that. I also agree with @Keyla about your husband needing to stand with you as a united front in setting these boundaries

@Keyla no I be thinking the same thing. He needs to man up and tell her something before I do. Exactly she has yet to change a diaper or do anything for him. She calls him a cry baby like she's the one Taking care of him. when he cries. 😡

Maybe I just don’t be giving af because I say what I want if that’s how I feel especially when I feel it’s necessary about my child and i don’t care who it is

@Ashlie ya I think I just need to get on the level too

I don’t let anybody and I mean anybody say something I don’t like referring to my child, people can give advice but don’t over step. And I wish someone would call my baby a cry baby, their babies that’s what they do and nobody has to deal with it but the parents.

Yeah I would be pissed too if I was you, just move out

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