What does it mean if your male partner wants to role play you to be his step sister/sister

Disgusting. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢. Does he watch a lot of porn? That's vile! It would put me off of him completely

The meaning could range a lot tbh 😬 it’s concerning behavior either way. I’d definitely say something though. I’d ask why he’s so into it, and if his answer is honest, based off that, it’ll give you the meaning/reason you’re looking for

I had a boyfriend that would ask me to role play mom/son and I knew he was into that kind of porn too. It is definitely a red flag 🚩 and it needs to be addressed because there’s something not good going on. Besides obvious mommy issues.

Yeah incest porn is quite popular apparently, but that is definitely worrying. Honestly if someone needs a specific thing every time you have sex that’s worrying by itself, but for it to be that, I would think there is an issue there that’s not resolved. Was he abused? As if so it might be a way of him trying to take control of his trauma and sexuality but then he needs help to do that in therapy.

That he has an incest kink and you need to communicate how you feel if you’re uncomfortable with it. Kink shaming isn’t cool. Yes there are weird ones. But, its role-play and a fantasy. I would only be concerned if it were to try to expand outside of the bedroom.

Ok so unpopular opinion but I don't kink shame. People enjoy weird things... People like to dress as animals and fuck, people like rough sex, people like to be tied up and gagged, people like incest porn, people like giant porn or even miniature porn. Like seriously the amount of "weird" kinks their are is endless. Incest porn is actually really common. Sure the thought it nasty to the vast majority of us but it generally doesn't MEAN anything. For some reason everyone thinks if you watch any kind of out of the norm porn you're a serial killer or something and those stats just don't add up lol Communication is key! Tell him it makes you uncomfortable and it's not something you enjoy. Otherwise you're having sex you don't want to have and that's where things are actually wrong! Some of y'all are thinking way too deeply about this 😅

I agree about not kink shaming but porn and kinks can be healthy or unhealthy, and I think the concerning thing here is asking for it basically every time they have sex. Yes absolutely she should say if it’s making her uncomfortable and it definitely depends if he’s pushing it or not, but generally it’s not healthy to have sexual fixations that where you don’t want to have sex without. This kink could be totally fine for an otherwise healthy and well adjusted individual, but could also well be coming from an unhealthy or dangerous place. Intense sexual fixations can lead on to sexual offending, though obviously not all the time.

@Lara I think her "letting" it happen everytime they have sex is what's making it an unhealthy obsession. And statistically speaking most people with sexual fixations don't offend. Actually a surprisingly huge amount of women have intense sexual fixations or kinks which is why that simply isn't actuate Most people aren't aware of how many people have naughty kinks because they keep it private.

@Lara also I don't disagree with you about it possibly coming from an unhealthy place. I'm only saying that from the comments people clearly have misconceptions of "nasty" kinks

@Sara I think the reason it gives me weird vibes is that she is coming here to ask if it’s okay, and therefore potentially doesn’t feel comfortable to question this with her partner. That suggests some other dynamics, though it may just be that’s she’s awkward about it and he is none the wiser. Of course most people who have fixations don’t sexually offend, especially women as for whatever reason women are vastly less likely to sexually offend in general, but it is something can can lead to risky behaviour and a lot of sexual fixations do have a grounding in people’s trauma, though that doesn’t necessarily make them bad and can be empowering as a result. I am speaking based on my experience and as someone who has worked with offenders for many years I am always going to consider that side. In my experience a fixation on incest can be a way to take back power after familial abuse, but I work with a specific population of people. We can’t know more without the full context.

@Lara oh I totally agree! It feels like forced sex in a sense which is definitely not healthy and only adding unhealthy aspects to this kink. I can only speak from my perspective and it sounds like you have more first hand knowledge than I do so I definitely don't disagree and like you said more context is definitely needed to truly understand. My child woke up otherwise I could talk about this all day 😉

I’m not saying I’m not comfortable etc I’m just asking if it means anything ? Childhood trauma or if it’s most likely just a kink?

There’s only one person who can answer that, your partner. If you feel comfortable to do it and he is approaching it in a respectful way I wouldn’t be concerned, but if you are doing something you should also feel comfortable to talk about it, so maybe just ask him where it came from? Could be trauma, could be porn, could be the Brady bunch 🤣 - just be clear you aren’t pushing for details it has just sparked your curiosity.

It’s mostly likely a kink he enjoys. I wouldn’t think too deeply about it but honestly just talk to your husband if you really want to get to the bottom of it. You’re just going to get a lot of kink shaming here, people weirded out, and other people going back and forth with each other here. @incognito

He’s probably watched a bit too much porn tbh. I’m a fuck and let fuck kinda person, but if it’s making you uncomfortable you need to let him know how you feel.