Baby daddy weed addiction

Yes my partner is overall a good boyfriend in different ways. He makes sure I eat, he’ll come and apologize to me sometimes after certain conflicts, we go out shopping and running errands. My baby dad has been smoking weed since middle school/high school. I’m 25 and he is 27. He has told me multiple times that he has a weed addiction. I’m currently pregnant 27 weeks with our first child and I feel like his addiction has a strain on our relationship in many different ways. I don’t want to control him or change him I just want what’s best for him and our new family. Any advice or personal experience down below is appreciated

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Unfortunately if you knew about it before it will be very detrimental to mention it being a huge deal now. Of course too much of anything isn’t good or like if he smoke in the house and you don’t want that when the baby comes , that’s understandable but I hope you don’t except him to just up and quit if its not something he’s interested in doing and you were okay with it prior.

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My bf and I smoke everyday, but we both work Monday through Friday too. I have 3 kids that live with me and they all know. The youngest is about to be 12. I understand that he is your husband and this is between you and him. I just wanted to come say that weed is so chill compared to a lot of other things that I would be ok with it even if I didn't smoke. My mom and an ex were both alcoholics and it was terrible. Anyways I hope yall can come to an agreement that helps both of yall. Good luck

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My husband smokes everyday but has been very respectful since I been pregnant making sure it’s only outside and never in my direction if we’re outside together. We use to smoke together but I stopped cold turkey once I got pregnant. As long as he can function and afford it then it shouldn’t be a huge deal.

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I hate weed my ex was same as ur bf,
Waste of money, fries your brain cells, makes u lazy, u stink to high heaven , they taste like crap when u kiss. Its vile. Mood swings if they can't get any. Not to mention it impacts your brain massively and its illegal to drive under the influence and I certainly wouldn't be leaving him alone with the baby under the influence and I wouldn't want drugs or users around my baby.
Unless ur partner wants to stop been a druggie then sadly he won't. I left my ex after a few years should have left sooner.

People who smoke it will always justify it, oh its not that bad blah blah , you are entitled to not like it just like their entitled to like it.

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