Advice
partners ex I've noticed recently they keep messaging each other
I've brought it up with him
And he said they split up years ago it wasn't a bad break up and they message now and then
He's been constantly messaging her for a week now and even going to look at her car for her and arranging to fix it
He's been off with me for a while to the point in him ending it then him begging for me back
He says there's nothing to worry about
But i feel hurt and pissed off
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That would be a no from me. There will be other ppl she can ask for help, why does your hubby need to have anything to do with her? If it were a one off like ‘just had a call from xx, she’s completely stuck and asked 10 ppl and no one can help do you mind if I go’ I’d be fine with that, but constant messages? I feel there’s an ulterior motive here 😕
Thank you I had it out with him last night and he's said he's deleted her on Facebook but that doesn't stop them messaging each other
He turned round and said I'm making a problem out of something thats not an issue
Don’t be gaslit. Your feelings are valid. Good he’s taken action but I do think partners should try and understand why you’re upset too x
I’ve had to explain this to my hubby by the way, not all men, even intelligent ones, get it x
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