Cheat while expecting

I just need a little advice.. please go easy… In jan of ‘24 I was pregnant with our first baby, a boy, to which we were both head over heels for. Well in that month I was less than a month from giving birth and he decided to go on onlyfans and mess around with MULTIPLE women, at the time I didn’t know much about the app and Apparently neither did he because he claims he thought they were ALL real women and not any bots or men managing the accounts, so I fully told him it was alright and we basically moved on for the most part, I’ve still been dealing with it for so many reasons but just try not to hold it against him.. 3 days later i had to be rushed into the hospital due to so much bleeding and ended up staying till i gave birth which was a whole month. well today I was on his old iPhone which is still hooked up to his Apple account (we use our old iPhones hooked up to both our Apple accounts so we can FaceTime and watch our kid sleep lol) well I found a contact that I didn’t recognize as someone we knew or someone I know he knew, so I started thinking and remembered one of the women he messed around with on only fans was named this exact name… so of course now I’m feeling completely crazy so I go on the internet and search the number just to find out it’s a woman our age in Texas which is where the original woman on onlyfans is from… needless to say I’ve called the number multiple times today just to get no answer and I’m besides myself. My husband gets home from work at 5 today and it’s Father’s Day and we have been married forr over 9 years together for 10, so I’m feeling so besides myself on what to do… should I wait till tomorrow to bring it up or? What would you guys do? Also do you think I have enough evidence to ask if he’s been physically cheating?

I have been dating a guy for almost 3 years now while I was married to my husband. I slept with him and got pregnant. I told my boyfriend and he said he does not want the child and I took a shot and bleed. This happened two weeks ago. My boyfriend does not want me too. My husband came home and asked me why my period is heavy this time because I don’t normally have heavy period I told him maybe because it’s different. And mind you I did not have my period for four months before this. Should I leave my husband ? Why can’t I have both. I know all this is wrong don’t judge.

partners ex I've noticed recently they keep messaging each other I've brought it up with him And he said they split up years ago it wasn't a bad break up and they message now and then He's been constantly messaging her for a week now and even going to look at her car for her and arranging to fix it He's been off with me for a while to the point in him ending it then him begging for me back He says there's nothing to worry about But i feel hurt and pissed off

I have accepted him back for the sake of the baby, but I cannot help thinking constantly about all the times I accused him of cheating and he's just lied! When many of them have come out true.. don't know how to get passed this!... any help other than leave him, cos that is not an option, our baby was planned and I am not going to let him get away with him having her a night a week and having an easy life! tia x

He had punched the wall (thankfully a brick house a. Because it would have hurt and b. Because it didn't leave a hole) and then followed me into the kitchen a while later where I was preparing bubs bottle. He simple asked if he would still be able to see his daughter.. and I told him that despite the fact that I didn't trust him anymore I was willing to give us another go because I still loved him, but he had to choose because he couldn't have the both of us. He took maybe 30 seconds to think about it and said he chose me, and he chose us to be a family..

We seemed to be doing well. Upon exploring further into his phone a few days later I discovered they had started talking the first week I was on maternity leave. I genuinely thought he was going to end it with her but he kept being cagey and distant and it took him another week to actually end it and by then I had moved out because I was tired of him leading me on and I told him he needed to take a break from the both of us to work out what he wanted...

On the upside his mum was witness to all this and despite the fact it took a breakup and a baby... she finally likes me 😂

Since the whole ordeal we have tried to get back together and we seemed to be doing well, I found myself trusting him a bit again after a while but he started acting distant and like he was avoiding having back at OUR house and keeping me from OUR friends so I broke things off with him because he wouldn't tell me what was wrong and then he admitted he didn't believe me that I said I was going to move home and we could really give the relationship another go and he felt like it was a waste of time, despite the fact he knew better then that and that he could trust me.

Am I completely hopeless for still wanting to give things a go with him.. or should I cut my loses and try and move on... We are in such a weird place right now, like he doesn't want a relationship with me, yet he acts like we are in one (kissing, hugging, the occasional sex, going out on dates, actively trying to be a dad when we visit) but won't sleep in the same bed as me or tell me that he wants a relationship.. except for one very vague message saying "I'm not saying anything but I can't love you like I want to when your not with me" in regards to me asking whether he's ever going to want a relationship with me again and I gave him a date that I'm moving back home (which is now in a matter of days)... To which I've had to buy myself my own bed to be able to do..