Should I leave ?
Two weeks Ago
I have been dating a guy for almost 3 years now while I was married to my husband. I slept with him and got pregnant. I told my boyfriend and he said he does not want the child and I took a shot and bleed. This happened two weeks ago. My boyfriend does not want me too. My husband came home and asked me why my period is heavy this time because I don’t normally have heavy period I told him maybe because it’s different. And mind you I did not have my period for four months before this. Should I leave my husband ? Why can’t I have both.
I know all this is wrong don’t judge.
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Tell him the truth .. see how it goes from there .. good luck with everything
What made you cheat in the first place? No judgment just curious
Leave your husband. I'm sure you wouldn't want the same happening to you so don't cheat on your husband and leave him
All this is confusing….. your husband shouldn’t be lied to if this is how you want to live tell him the truth straight up and let him decide what he wants for his own life
3 years and he doesn’t know?!! Girlll how you do it? 😛 but anyways, why was the cause of you cheating? Did he cheat on you first? Has he cause any harm?now you are you using any protection? Cause remember STDS are soo bad right now. Also with this situation we know your boyfriend doesn’t want to actually be with you. So make your decision, cause I mean your husband is your husband yk and for what I can tell, he knows you too well to know about your period.
dont tell him. If you want to stay in the marriage. Because the truth will hurt him more. I will just swallow it. just tell him you have problem with hormones . it happens
I would tell him and let him leave your unfaithful ass.
If you truly want to be in this relationship with your husband, then don’t tell him. But repent. If you are not religious, repent in other ways. I will say this though, the truth will always come out one way or another. If you do decide to stay, STAY AWAY from any other guys. If you feel attracted to someone else and want a relationship with them, then leave your husband, but be kind to him. Put yourself in his shoe and understand how he may feel about the truth. 3 years is such a long time to be fooled by someone you love let alone by the person you are married to. Genuinely sit with yourself and ask yourself whaa you want? Can you truly be faithful to him, and whaa was the cause to you cheating in the first place? Make a judgment based on the answers you give yourself.
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