What should I do?

I just need a little advice.. please go easy…
In jan of ‘24 I was pregnant with our first baby, a boy, to which we were both head over heels for. Well in that month I was less than a month from giving birth and he decided to go on onlyfans and mess around with MULTIPLE women, at the time I didn’t know much about the app and Apparently neither did he because he claims he thought they were ALL real women and not any bots or men managing the accounts, so I fully told him it was alright and we basically moved on for the most part, I’ve still been dealing with it for so many reasons but just try not to hold it against him.. 3 days later i had to be rushed into the hospital due to so much bleeding and ended up staying till i gave birth which was a whole month. well today I was on his old iPhone which is still hooked up to his Apple account (we use our old iPhones hooked up to both our Apple accounts so we can FaceTime and watch our kid sleep lol) well I found a contact that I didn’t recognize as someone we knew or someone I know he knew, so I started thinking and remembered one of the women he messed around with on only fans was named this exact name… so of course now I’m feeling completely crazy so I go on the internet and search the number just to find out it’s a woman our age in Texas which is where the original woman on onlyfans is from… needless to say I’ve called the number multiple times today just to get no answer and I’m besides myself. My husband gets home from work at 5 today and it’s Father’s Day and we have been married forr over 9 years together for 10, so I’m feeling so besides myself on what to do… should I wait till tomorrow to bring it up or? What would you guys do? Also do you think I have enough evidence to ask if he’s been physically cheating?

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What does your gut tell you?

I think you should eventually bring it up for your piece of mind, if you ask and he tells you it’s nothing are you going to be satisfied with that answer or will it just make things worse?

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If he tells me it’s nothing I’m going to make him call the number on speaker right then and there.

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