Is it worth to use fertility lubes

I am TTC since long.Lately I have started to feel aversion from sex and I feel dry.. But I want to get pregnant. So thinking of using fertility lube. Any suggestions if I should use and are they good to use .. will they affect baby. Which one is the best to use. Please lovely ladies . Help me with your suggestions and support

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My gynae recommended Yes WB rather than the fertility specific ones

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did it helped to conceive

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We’re currently using preseed, not pregnant yet so can’t comment on that but as a lube alone it’s effective for when sex is a necessary and your not in the mood!

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None of them help you conceive in the sense of increasing prospects of pregnancy, the fertility ones (and apparently Yes WB) just don’t kill the sperm like some others can. Worth using to make TTC more comfortable/fun

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I am thinking to try conceive plus.. have ordered it .. i was looking at both preseed and conceive plus.. and have seen many using conceive plus getting success.. would be worth a try .. especially after TTC since so long .. i become conscious and do not get in mood ..

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I tried for 6 months and nothing. I then in the cycle we got a positive used preseed and also the ferti-lily cup and I am convinced one or both made a difference.
I found I wasn’t getting huge amounts of EWCM so the preseed actually helps with providing the environment for sperm to travel easily which the mucus should do.
The cup - I found it helped by pushing the sperm up to increase chances.
Could have been a complete coincidence but I am convinced it played a part and would 100% recommend trying. My partner however didnt like it!

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Thanks Joanna.. yes its a bit experiment I think I will need to do.. mostly i have heard conceive plus and pre seed that has helped

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I think the important thing is find something that makes sex easier and make sure it’s fertility focused so not to damage any sperm. 🙌🏼

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Yeah we used conceive plus at the start. I think the difference for me was actually using the syringe to shoot it up with preseed 🤣 rather than just on surface with conceive plus

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was the cup easy to use? X

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yes true I am looking for something to make sex easier .. although your point about EWCM is also i feel I am not getting enough .. thinking to try conceive plus once now that i have ordered it. Will let you guys khow how it goes.. wish me luck

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It was easy to insert but I still have no clue if I used it right - as in could not tell if it flipped inside or not! But either way it would still help to push the goods up :) Welcome to message if you have any questions x

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