SD9 is crying to her teachers lying and claiming we hurt her and she doesn’t feel safe at home. This is the 3rd time CPS has been in our business. The last interview BM was present during it (which is weird because they’re supposed to interview alone). I’m tired of being around her and dealing with her dishonesty. She’s a carbon copy of her mother and it makes me sick to my stomach. Should I leave? The only tie I have is our infant. Do things like this ever get any better or just worse?
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I honestly would leave for one reason... my other child because cps will do the same for all children in the home and if it's the 3rd time I doesn't seem like it will stop

I would leave too. 3 CPS investigations, it’s going to keep happening. I would be super concerned about what could happen with my infant because of the investigations.

I’d never see the child again. And if your partner doesn’t respect that then leave. It’s not very easy too live a double life but it’s worth it if you love him. Just don’t come into contact with the child again and risk your own children future with you

I would leave! CPS is not just looking at the child who's complaining they are looking at all kids in the home. And if it goes left, your baby is going to. Does she leave with you full time, and I would complain about Bio mom being there for an interview. Write everything down and record everything for yourself. I don't play with CPS. No one should!
Yes, all steps live here FT. They’re only gone on most weekends.

Yes, that is definitely a problem if she lives with you full time. Do you know why she's lying?