AM I CRAZY?

It’s okay for us to look at someone and think ooh they’re good looking, we all do it when out & about but the difference is, you just don’t act on those feelings and don’t progress anything

Looking is okay, but once you start interacting more and liking loads of photos etc and then perhaps messaging girls, that’s when it’s not okay and that when it’s an issue but it’s harmless to look at someone in the street or on IG, it’s just when it goes further

If he’s someone who has cheated before in the past then I completely get why you feel the way you do, but if he’s never cheated or anything of that sort then I wouldn’t worry too much if he is literally just looking when a random girl pops up online or somewhere xx

he has cheated before and that’s why I feel like if he starts small like looking at other girls it’s bound to progress into something else. He has lied to me about looking at other girls and gaslighted me so clearly I felt like I was losing my mind

I was in the same boat.
The woman intuition is real. What happens in the dark always comes to the light.
I drove myself insane wondering what he was doing all day and night. I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t let it bother me. It’s not good for you at all!! It takes a while to come out of that dark deep depression so stop it before it gets to that point. I’d look into what makes you happy, keep yourself occupied! Learn yourself, learn new healthy habits,
If you think he’s cheating, refrain from sex altogether until you feel safe and comfortable.