Attachment
I’m starting to think I have a unhealthy attachment to my child ( everyone keeps telling me anyways) .. my friends keep saying to me about how my son has been by my side ever since he’s been born which is true and that I need time without him, but I don’t want time without him? 😕 my son doesn’t want anyone else but me, but I love that and I’m fine with that. I don’t see why anyone else needs to look after him I’m not working.. but my partner took him yesterday to see his mum without me and I cried and it was only a hour but i just missed him so much!🥺
My mum keeps saying about nursery. I just want to enjoy every little moment whilst I can. I don’t see a problem with it but I just want others advice because maybe I am being a little to much😅🙄
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I don’t think it’s too much! ♥️ he’s your best friend and that’s how it should be! Xx
I don't think you have an unhealthy attachment to your son. I'm exactly the same and I don't see anything unhealthy about it, and no one said that to me.
Some of my closest friends say this about me and my twins and that I should have some time on my own and that I’ve no excuses if I’ve got my partner to watch them on a night and try to invite me to stuff just on my own but I actually don’t want to be without them 🙄🤷🏼♀️ xxx
I always get reminded by my friends, that I need to give him to someone and go out as he is always with me and to let my hair down🙄 but I don’t want to😂 I have a shower/bath and that to me is my time or when he’s asleep that’s also my time and I’m okay with that.. he is my best friend 💙
Exactly hun I’m the exact same and I’m fine with it 🙈 xxx
Nope don’t listen to them!! If your happy with how much time you spend with your baby, then it’s no one else’s business. If you feel like you need time away from them then do it, but don’t let anyone cloud your judgment!! Xx
I hear you! They grow so fast! I’m currently at a wedding but in bed with my baby whilst everyone else is partying. I’d just be worried about him if I wasn’t with him. He’s also my bestie! 💙
Enjoy EVERY second with your child. There’s not such thing as “TOO ATTACHED”. Your child’s best place/person is YOU. My girl won’t go with anyone else and as long as I’m able to, I will be with her ♥️
Thank you for all the comments🥰 I’m just going to carry on what I’m doing and not made to feel bad for it! Spending time with my son is the best feeling ever! 🥰Xxx
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