Touch sensitive

What do you mean by should you try more,more what? Is he grabbing you that way because he is trying to have sex ? That doesn’t sound like cuddling.

I have had to talk with my husband about this. I told him nicely that I don't want the only time he touches me to be when he is wanting to get...frisky. I told him I need physical affection outside of that so I don't feel used. This sounds harsh but it's the truth.

Do you not like it when he does this? Do you went to cuddle with him more? I think you need to talk to him about it and share what you want and don’t want. My husband loves my butt and boobs so when we cuddle he spoons me and loves it. Sometimes I don’t like when he touches my boobs so I ask him to stop. You just need to communicate your feelings with him

True to all of y’all it’s just idk how to explain it like now I’m not up for any sort of touch. He touches me in that way to show affection but cause of my past I immediate think he’s just try to get frisky. I just wanted to know weither or not I was maybe overreacting? But I am gonna talk with him soon.

I would say “overreacting” because something was done that traumatized you in your past which explains why you react the way you do. But I’d definitely sit down with him and explain the way it makes you feel when he touches you certain ways. It seems like you do enjoy the cuddling and groping at night but you just dislike any other touching which does kind of sound like you’re desensitized in way to certain touches. I’d say once you’ve had the talk with your partner try to figure out ways to fix it or see if there’s something you and your partner can do together to help the issue.