Everyone against husband help
Hi all. Me and my husband split up a few months ago due to some challenges in our relationship since having our baby. More recently we have come back together as we have been together for 15 years. During our split though things got ugly and nasty words were exchanged including from my husband to my family which was said in angry. They had a good relationship prior to this. Now my family hate him and don’t want anything to do with him and although I understand where they are coming from it’s breaking my heart and making me not want to recconect because of the strain is having on me and as my families opinion means everything to me (I’m very close to them). I feel like they are now looking down on me and pitying me. Has anyone experienced similar and did things work out?
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I would say something like look “we both said and did some bad things when we were hurt. No one is perfect but we are trying to fix things for our baby. I’m sorry I got y’all emotionally involved but please let me try to mend things and get on a better path for baby” & sorry you are going through this.. gotta remember, family holds on to stuff more because they don’t want to see you hurting so I do believe it’s from a place of love but at the same time, they have to let you be an adult and try to work on things. Especially if he is trying to be a parent
He need to appologie o them. Get them flowers and maybe a cake and be very very sincere. Even if they said things back to him. He needs to take it on the chin.
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