Where do I start?

I’ve (25F) been TTC since July 2022. So far, no luck.
I think I have PCOS because since quitting birth control I’ve gained 70lbs, started breaking out for the first time as an adult, my periods haven’t been the most regular (and are light/heavy randomly) and 2 have been skipped entirely, and when tracking my LH levels, they never really went up.
I haven’t been to any sort of doctor since June 2022 since I moved cross country and haven’t looked for a doctor yet.
My question is, where do I start? Do I go to a primary care, or OBGYN, or a fertility specialist because of how long it’s been?
I have no idea what to do.

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GBs positive at 36 weeks

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Is this normal?

Is it normal for my husband to feel like all touching is sexual? Recently I was asking for more nonsexual touching, like cuddling and hugging etc, especially when I’m feeling touched out and exhausted and just want normal affection. He’s a very loving and doting husband and ofc wants to oblige, but he was like, “It’s difficult because you’re gorgeous and every kind of touch feels like it could lead there.“ Basically he was explaining that he gets turned on by me with any kind of touch, and it’s hard for him not to want more.

I acknowledge that after 7 years of marriage maybe this is the opposite of a problem 😂 But I feel like humans should be able to touch and cuddle without it always being a turn on??
Is it normal for a guy to be turned on by any touching??

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Positive!

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FET

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IVF clinic recommendation

I am 39 and have recently had 2 failed transfers within the last year. 1 successful 3 years ago whi h i am so blessed for. I know my age is obviously against me this time around. I am heartbroken and really want to try again .Has anyone got any advice, clinics recommend for older woman if such thing ? I know testing embryo quality is also something to consider .Any help/advice be much appreciated x

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