Tongue tie separation

Anyone who’s gone private for their little ones tongue tie separation, where did you go and how much did it cost you?

We have a NHS referral but it’s taking so long and our little boy is already 3…

in our community

Showering with my baby? Is it unsafe/ wrong?

Is it weird to take a shower with my baby boy? Is it a bad thing? I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately because I can never shower I’m 11 weeks pp and my husband started a new job. He is gone all day to work and I can’t just leave my baby alone so I can shower. I can’t hear the monitor over the running water and even if he is sleeping if I leave the room he wakes up and starts crying and doesn’t stop unless I pick him up and if I put him down again he cries again and I’m against letting my baby just cry it out. So I’ve been neglecting my own self care and hygiene and it’s really taking a toll on my mental health. So I guess what I’m really wondering is it wrong, and is it unsafe?

Boy night time diapers

Hey boy mommas! I have a 5 month old tomorrow and for the past couple nights, he’s started peeing through his diapers at night and soaking his clothes. Any suggestions on the best night time diapers for baby boys who pee a lot?

Sleep!

Is anyone else having literally no luck with sleep!? I feel like I’m the only one.. 13 week and 3 days old and not had 1 successful night yet… he will extremely rarely have 1 longer stretch at the beginning of the night which in the bassinet is only 2-3 hours then won’t settle in it for longer than 30 minutes the rest of the time.. I’ve done everything suggested - heated mattress etc etc etc. During the day either pram or contact naps only and then even when attempting co-sleeping I don’t really sleep well so that hasn’t even been a solution. I’m lucky my partner is still off so we are doing shifts but feels like we will never solve the problem? He goes to sleep for the night at 8pm and will last till about 1/2am without a feed and then again till 4/5am it’s just the sleep is all contact or some bassinet on a lucky night! SOS 😂

Next to me crib

Is my baby growing out of her next to me? She’s 4.5 months old and I’m not ready to put her in her own room yet (I know should wait until 6 months anyway) but is she still okay in this crib?

Are nursing bras worth it?

Pregnant with my first I do plan to exclusively breast feed. I definitely don’t want pads or underwire. Are nursing bras with the front hooks worth it or do yall just pop a boob our the bottom of a bralette?

How many wake ups?

How many times are you having to settle baby during the night? Is baby still in your room or in their own room? If baby is sleeping in their own room, how many times do you go to their room to settle them in the night?

I’m just unsure if it’s worth put my little one in her own room when when she is needing settling multiple times in the night in her sleep (she isn’t fully waking up but wanting her dummy put back in if she can’t find it herself or the cot rocking?