Newborn baby and heat😬

How are you guys keeping your newborn cool and still making sure they are feeding?

My little girly is 6 days old today and she’s been very unsettled, she is sleeping a lot but will only sleep on me, she’s drinking a little less, she went 5 hours of sleep and no food. I heard that babies are supposed to drink more when it’s hot. Help a first time single mommy out🥺

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Yes wake her up. Dr always told me will sleep instead if don’t keep them up at that age

Put on something cold counter or something wafer little to wake up

My little boy was born jaundiced and very sleepy so wouldn't feed a lot to begin with. Midwives suggested changing baby's nappy to wake him up a bit before offering a feed or just stripping him if nappy changing wasn't working x

I had my boy in June and I also went through the heatwave with a new born .. I just kept him in loose clothing and fed him every 3 hours + whenever he wanted it .. I kept all my windows and blinds shut and opened it up of a night time .. a luke warm flannel on top of baby’s head also helps xx

My LO is 3 weeks old and is feeding a lot more frequently in this heat but it’s over a short period so like when he’s awake he’ll feed for 15/20mins and fall asleep, but as soon as I try to put him down, he’ll beg for another feed. He’ll do it about 3 or 4 times before actually settling but when he does he sleeps for a good 4 hours before waking again.
He’s currently in a short sleeved vest and that’s what he’ll stay in all night, no sleeping bag or blanket etc. I’m also sleeping on the sofa downstairs with him tonight because our bedroom is roasting.
I trust that LO will let me know when he wants more to drink but also you can tell whether or not they’re dehydrated by their soft spot! If it’s noticeably sunken, they’re dehydrated and need more to drink 😊 there’s also other signs you can watch out for but that’s the one my HV made me aware of!

My little girl had a little bit of jaundice too.

I’m gonna try setting alarms for every 3 hours for a feed x

Thankyou. I really feel like I’m doing something wrong with it all, it’s all new to me and trying my best x

I’m gonna keep her in a short sleeve vest tonight but sometimes she gets cold and I worry😂 x

We’ve been in hospital the last few days, she’s 7 days old and the midwifes and doctors kept saying change her nappy to wake her up and then she’s ready for a feed.
They said to make sure she is getting 2.5 oz minimum every 3 hours so she doesn’t get dehydrated x

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