Had a miscarriage

Was anybody else’s husband not supportive after they’ve experienced a miscarriage?

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I'm so sorry, Jazmine. My husband didn't understand why I would look up miscarriage quotes on Pinterest, knowing that it was going to make me cry, but it was out of concern. If I hadn't seen his face crumple and shed a few tears when we got to the ER, I would have sworn that he wasn't sad about it at all. Guys don't process pregnancy the same way we do, so it doesn't feel as real to them. Women lose a baby and the whole life we have planned for them, but (most) men just lose the idea of a baby.
I'm sorry if he's being nasty to you. It is NOT your fault. You DID NOT cause this. Your baby's life mattered, and your feelings are valid. Please be gentle with yourself.

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Thank you so much I really needed that

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